What Zeny said is true. He never
love you and care about your feelings. Ultimately, that girl is of
higher priority than you. Such guy cannot give you security unless
he learnt his lesson which obviously, he never learnt. Because he
still go back & treat the girl like his queen (you should be
the queen!!).
That girl reminds me of one of my colleagues. She broke up with her
exbf 1 year ago. Now, he has a new gf and she is single. She told
me up till now, whatever she wants, her exbf will get for her. Even
if she knows his gf is beside him, she will still demand the exbf
to serve her and the guy really did! That silly guy would tell his
gf that his exgf needs this & that and off he goes. When I
asked her why is she doing this, she told me she is single and just
bored. Also, she knows the exbf still like her alot and thus, will
care about her. Therefore, she make use of him. I am quoting word
for word, "If I want him back now, he will leave his gf and be with
me." Anyway, she call herself b1tch.
If you happen to feel less charming or attractive than that girl,
please don't be because their immoral actions don't deserve your
self-worth. I think perhaps, that girl doesn't come from a good
loving background so she thrist for guy's attention (that's what
happen to my colleague) or she was sexually abused before and so
she lost her self-respect and started sleeping around with guys.
(like Annabel Chong) Whatever the case is, that girl is old enough
to choose whether she wants to be good or bad. She did not try to
regain her self-respect and likewise, everyone will continue to
disrespect her. Respect needs to be earned.
Cheers!
