Originally posted by ^mR.yellow^86:
how many of you here thinks that we should that
for the experience for future relationships and how many of you
here thinks that dating is not for experience but for the "real
business"(meaning we date to see if he/she is captable for our
spouse)?
we should ? that?
Casual dating: Applies for Singles mostly. Going out alone with
potential partner. Movies, dinner, etc. No affections & no
commitment involved. Casual date to see if both of you can progress
towards relationship. It's very common. Alot of couples evolved
from casual dating. However, going out alone with someone I am not
interested in or with obligation is not considered casual dating.
(e.g. Having a meal with my superior or colleague, a meal to
accompany a guyfriend, etc...)
Casual sex: Not uncommon when I was in overseas. Seen and heard
such cases. Sexual activities but no commitment, that means can
have multiple partners. I only heard of 1 such partners got
attached. Don't think I'll practice such term.
So it really depends on what you are looking for. A companion or a
long term partner? If the relationship works out, we proceed
towards marriage or "the real business". If it doesn't, give
him/her the blessings. People change. I have seen many of my
university couples broke off after the girl/guy stepped out into
the society, as in, working full-time. Changing environment and new
experiences will influence the way we think and therefore, our
expectations towards our partner.
Is this your school survey? 
Cheers!
