Originally posted by aknoo123:
i have recently broke up with my gf of 1 1/2 yrs, and we got off to
realli bad terms, now i juz wanted to let go but every time i look
back, i am filled with pain n regrets of the relationship unable to
work out. i loved her lots but she left me for a new guy.i tried
everything giving her wad ever she wanted, even having to put up
with her being unreasonable and demanding. i know i had to let go,
but i juz cant n i dunno how.. can u guys help?
4 years ago, my first bf left me for
his ex-gf after a month of relationship. If he left me for a new
girl, I'll tell myself "I am not interesting to him anymore. There
he goes, trying out new & fresh chicks". The feelings weren't
so bad. BUT he left me for his ex-gf! So what does it say? "I so
f-ked up meh??" He didn't love me at all and he didn't treat me
nice either. I was just a substitute to this bast**d. That was how
I feel.
1 month of relationship but I took 6 months to get over him. So
long...probably because he was my first boyfriend. It's harder for
girls to let go of emotional baggages of their past relationship.
So, if i can let go, why can't you? You are a man leh...
Now, I have a boyfriend who has better characters than my first. We
really cherish each other.
If we keep looking back at the past, the lives ahead of us become
meaningless. If we carry on like this, wallowing ourselves in the
mud, we are likely to develop depression. Why can't we love
ourselves more by thinking forward? Love and pamper yourself by
doing things you like and didn't get a chance to do them while you
were in the relationship.
Try out new stuff or check out new chicks. If you get to befriend
more girls, you will realise that she is not the perfect girl
around.
The world does not revolve around her. Time waits for no men.
Don't let opportunities slip away for a guy like you. You will find
a better half.
Cheers!
