IS A PACTHED RELATIONSHIP USEFUL AND LASTING?

kevinaldinho SG

many of my frens tell me tht patching a broken relationship is a one wae ticket to breaking up eventually, really meh?

i kenna 2 times le, den in the end still break, so does it mean tht the first ever break up is final? hmmmmm......

jeramy SG

yes for me..tried it too and din work out

M©+square SG

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zeny SG

I have seen with my own eyes that a patch relationship really works. In fact is stronger than others if the couple puts in the extra effort to make it work.

Actually lets put it this way, have you learn the lesson on why both of you break up? If you have not is just repeating the same cycle again and again.

Ask your heart the real question. What is really wrong with the relationship? Have you really understand her well ? Seat down and think real hard why is it happening to you? Do you really know her ? Do you think she is the one ?

To get out the cycle of patch and break is to finally realise what is wrong with the relationship. It could be a simple, I do not like her ways of doing things or she is not what I want in my life.

Only you can break this cycle. I can only guide you but the final step is up to you. So take your time away from everyone and think carefully alone.

Devil1976 SG

Depends on the reason of the break up and the mentality of the patch back...

Some relationship eventually would break up is because it's not handled properly... So with or without the 'break ups in between', it's still HEADING for the SAME DIRECTION ANYWAY...?

Sockhwa SG

different people different sitution. Some peole break and patch will become more loving and love each other more deeply. this because they felt that they had almost lost each other....scared ...so they begin to learn to treasure. Some people feel that patch after break , the feeling is no longer that strong. Cause the upsetness had make them feel numbed. Which type of u and him belong to? If patch, try to your best to patch the saddness become back the happiness that you have last time. As long as u had tried your best, even it have fail, it doesnt really matter, as you had tried ur best liao..