Do u contact ur ex?

Sleeping Forest SG

initally yes.after 2 mths,lost contact le.

Gackt247 SG

Hmmm… wanted to but other party doesnt want to. Well.. this might be better. Things might juz get too complicated.

Devil1976 SG

Such things happen... In fact, I know a couple of girls who are like that myself?

BlUe [email protected]|eLd SG

Yap!! QuIte OfTen leh!!

Break liao still kan be frenz mah... Why make tings so bad, from lover to enemies... Confused

rainee SG

cos sometimes it is better to just stay away from them to not be reminded of the painful memories... Neutral

BlUe [email protected]|eLd SG

Tats why always tok tings out during the break... when the wave is calm... tings shld be fine... juz dun rake up the past and start to do comparison between the past and nw... no argument shld uprise...

casual chit chat will be fine, after all, ur ex is a person tat koes u the best, and can help u to loosen some burden! Cool

rainee SG

there was once I think he tried to talk to me, but then I kept quiet and just stared at him...

After that, none of us ever sees him again Neutral

BlUe [email protected]|eLd SG

Wooh! Shocked Shocked

He muz be then crying for a few days non-stop... and decide to hide to bcum a hermit... Mr. Green

rainee SG

But it was him who made me broke up wif him...cos he said he cudnt commit...hence I made the decision to leave him and never look back again ever since...except of cos for the occasional moments when I thought abt it...thinking if I am being too cruel... Neutral

alfagal SG

haha e break up was like more than a year ago, it was initiated by me though..of cos he was v pissed off at first tatz y he did all tat stuff..in fact, i think he felt suicidal..

haha but he has to forget ma..or else how to have new gf? Razz

but now, he doesnt even wanna tok..oh manz..guess its his personality ba..he was so shocked to bump into me in sch..shld look at his face..machiam seen a ghost Shocked

anyway i m glad tat he moved on..my nightmares are over..and he's happy w his life...

virce SG

i wanted to keep him as my friend, but he said he cant be my friend because he still loves me. In the end, we become strangers.

renorenal SG

Some ppl can't accept sudden changes that they have gotten used to, and need some time, some may need quite a long time before they can accept the fact and move on. And when they do, they wanna totally erase it out of their memories... hence leading to the shocking ghost experience Mr. Green

TheIndian SG

As for me I am still on very good terms with my ex.. We chat about almost anything.. But of course not as much as last time.. She still tells me her new relationship problems and stuff and I try to explain to her.. Although we have a certain reason which i will prolly nvr say online in a forum for which i have the right to be very angry and nvr see her again. lol..

But well, by doing that both parties will be just upset.. Y not change that and have an extra well-wisher for urself? Y make an enemy when a true friend is just a stone's throw away?

I got rejected twice b4 and then went on to become one of my closest pals ever.. For me its a good thing. Becoz I can more or less safely say that even though if I get rejected I am still bound to have them as my good pals.

Talking is everything. U shd know the right way of talking and understanding then u can change any relationship to the way u want it to be. Trust me..

Itachi SG

yes.. i agree with u.. but for me.. i guess it's abit too late.

i think she now dun wanna haf anything gotta do wif me.. meaning, we r like strangers now lor. my past and recent friendster testimonial oso deleted. sighs.. if only i could turn back time...

Hele1668 SG

Shocked Shocked Shocked I dun keep in touch with my Ex, my hubby did.
Shocked I always run onto my ex whereever i go 9during wkdays. Shocked

Itachi SG

u can't run away from fate Twisted Evil

sinicker SG

i've yet to chat up wiv my ex of 11 days.

i cant even seem to see her eye-to-eye. it feels so odd to look at her and tell myself she is not my girlfriend.

yday, hockey trng was so weird..

mink77 SG

not until my hatred for her is completely vanished.

Itachi SG

im curious.. why do u hate her so much?

JuzMy2Cts SG

Not remaining as friends does not equate to becoming enemies… sometimes things are better left untouched unanswered unknown… most broke up for the hope of being happier with another… often a breakup is decided at the expense of another’s happiness/willingness… unless its a mutual amiable breakup i dont feel friendship is warranted in such circumstances… i dont contact my ex, all 3 of them, i dont feel that they are my enemies then or now, its just that i dont feel the need to enter their lives nor having them entering my life anymore… i feel its much better as i dont have to ‘worry’ my current relationship… my present gf does contact her ex and do sms/msn/meetup regularly… i accept it even though i admit (to my gf) that i dont like it but i do respect her right to have friends and vice versa she respect to take care of my feelings in not causing unwanted problems or frustrations to me… its all take and give… nothing much its just my thoughts on this topic… thanks for reading…

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