orhx! den iit must have been fate!
kiie .. dun't worii be happy then ! Your both gonna liive happiily
ever after 
anyways,
hurm, projectlime
maybe what you need to do iis just siit down, and have one Good
talk wiif her, you know, to riight all the wrongs and sort
everythiing out. be open, just let her know how you feel, dun't be
shy or scared to say whats realli needed to be saiid. [ up to you,
but be careful tho, dun't say the wrong thiing(s) and hurt her
feeliings ]
Its oso good to fiind out iif you really love her and have
feeliings for her and whether she feels the same towards you. [ iif
your really desperate, pester her abiit, but dun't be a pest
] try to fiind out iif she has any problems, iif iits
affectiing the relatiionshiip, and whether she wants to talk about
iit [ iif she has a problem, take note of the problem, whether iif
iits an emotiional, physiical or problems wiif her friiends,
famiily etc. and see what you can do to help ]
iif she dosen want to talk about iit wiith you, guess whether shes
just shy iin general or she dosen't want to bother you -- whiich
iis good OR she dosen't trust you enough --- whiich iisn't that
good but, iis useful as iit can tell you how she feels towards you
and then maybe you can work on that trust meter --- whiich iis
iimportant iin a good relatiionshiip
you guys dun't know what to talk about when your together or on the
phone maybe because, no offence, you guys don't really know that
much about each other. dun't know what the other liikes, does not
liike, prefers etc [ of course ii can be wrong, maybe you guys just
don't know what to say 
]
but, iif you want to know more about her, for example, you want to
buy her perfume with flowers as a gift but you dun't know what
flower she prefers then make up a story and ask her whether she
thiinks tuliips or daffodiils are niicer, then she could say that
she prefers roses iinstead and there ! you know what flower she
appreciiates [ iit may not be her favouriite flower but then
agaiin, you know that iits a preference ] thiis method can apply to
ALOT of thiings, but dun't abuse iit and make iit so obviious that
she'll realiise your ulteriior motiives dude 
oh! and you know, iif you really dun't know what to say then, just
start wiith a siimple topiic. eg. ask her hows the hols for her and
ask her hows she been spendiing tiime. iif she says shoppiing for
example, then you can talk about that new CD you liike or new shoes
or shiirt you know, and then she may talk about what she liikes.
then, now you know the perfect giift to surpriise her wiith + how
she liikes to spend her tiime
And of course, we all dream of haviing that perfect relatiionshiip
where shes there for you, and your there for her whenever you both
need each other no matter what. but, no matter how hard we try, we
just just can't be there all the tiime [ >.< no offence ! ii
could be wrong !! ] but iin your case projectlime, your both not
iin fault. what you can do iis try to be understandiing and
understand her siituatiion if she CMI that tiime and of course
viice versa for her.
Remember, all you really need to fiind out iis iif your love and
feeliings for her iis stiill strong and hers for you. iif iit iis
then, cheriish her wiith all your heart !!
BLEAHxXx ... -_-' sorii for beiing long-wiinded, lets just say ..
ii'm goiing thru the same thiing as you my fwen ... and thiis iis
just my adviice, you can do iit your way. good luck man !!
