Dear OhYeah,
Perhaps you may want to ask yourself why you are so intent on
returning the things to him. If it hurts you to keep them, how do
you think it'll make him feel if they're returned to him? Wouldn't
it be selfish to hurt him? You could always keep them in a place
you won't see them, or throw them away, right? Unless, of course,
he asked for those things back, which you didn't state whether he
did or Not.
Moreover, both of you have just broken off for 2 months. My guess
is that he wants to give you time to get over him, & get over
the breakup. From the way you've posted in previous threads, you
can't seem to get over him yet. He's being considerate towards your
feelings by Not wanting to bring you further pain. In this aspect,
I can't blame him for acting the way he does.
He may be busy, or he may be avoiding you intentionally. Rather
than trying to guess his actions, perhaps you could ask him
directly, since you're still in contact with him? Either way, he
isn't to blame. Give yourself time to get over the hurt, the pain
is obviously still very raw & recent to you. When you've moved
on from this hurtful chapter, perhaps he'll be more prepared to see
you.
FeowFeow
