y my ex dun wan to meet me????

last SG · 2005-11-10T13:39:32+00:00

hey, iam kinda in the same boat as u too man, i guess if u still love him, show him tht u love him enuff by letting him go, be happy as long as he is, its ha...

starblue SG

no need to return things lah. no need to give present lah.. save money ok gal??

dun be too upset. guys are tough nuts to crack sometimes....

-ohyeah- SG

then... how abt his birthday present which is in dec?

should i give him?

-ohyeah- SG

but i have done the present already..... so how???

ya.. i agree guys are tough nuts to crack....

in the past, when he said some words, i would swept by him... but now... no matter what i said, he will not moved by me.

M©+square SG

Pass those things to his friends.

ohyeah,

There are many unknown reasons why this relationship end up this way.
But by the trend and momentum this relationship had been.
It was already a very unhealthy one to start and move with.
So there might have been many resentments built up.

Think it over. And take a break from this ordeal.

Cheers

rainee SG

omg, this really sounds like one of the questions I used to ask last time.

Pls dun resort to this. You will do better if you save some dignity and pride for yourself. I dun think he will really mind if you totally forget about his bday and dun give anything to him at all. And why shud you give something to him when he has hurt you? Rolling Eyes

rainee SG

he has not asked for them, take it as he doesnt want them back anymore...just put it in a box where you will not see them, and if after some time he hasnt come and collect them, throw them away.

Apollo_sg SG

dun throw... gimme. btw, got rolex watch or any expensive stuff also? can put in box.

cheap one I find karang guni for u.

M©+square SG

Haha....i'm glad you remembered and learnt from it.

It's good to see you giving some good advice on what you've experienced.
/pat

Wink Cheers

papercut87 SG

usually from lovers back to friends... its difficult.. i guess its kinda hard for ur ex lar.. its kinda awkward to meet up after the breakup..

actually i was in yr state 2 yrs also.. asked my ex out abt 2 or 3 mnths after our brkup to meet up coz i wanted to pass him his birthday pressie... but he was super reluctant and came out with alot of excuses... until now i havent seen him or pass him the present.. hahaz..

smudgey SG

just let him know that these things are with you. and let him know that you have kept it aside for him to collect whenever he can.

choco B SG

I'd give him a final warning, before I sell them or trash them .

If he hasn't the courtesy to remove his stuff from your place for more than two months, then he can afford not to have them. There's such a thing as storage cost y'know, the junk's taking up space.

-ohyeah- SG

i really dun quite understand wat are u trying to say... esp "unhealthy one to start and move with"

M©+square SG

ReRead your past threads.

-ohyeah- SG

i have decided not to call and sms him anymore. my heart has been so hurt.. i have done so much to patch back... i have lost my pride to do these for him but no use..........now i give up... i really surrender...

now i just wan to give him the birthday present... that's all..

but some of u suggest that i dun give it to him... i really at loss....

i dun understand.. just give him a present will... make me lose my pride??? maybe u all feel that there is no point bah...

really.. i dun know wat to do .....

FeowFeow SG

Erm, OhYeah Confused

Let's say some stalker (very bad example, I know, but I can't think of anything else) wants to pass you a present, but you don't want. No matter how he tries to give it to you, you just don't want. You'll find the stalker very irritating, right?

That's what I mean. Give up, forget about passing him the present if he's so reluctant to meet you. Give it to your dad/brother/cousin/uncle/friend/colleague.

FeowFeow

-ohyeah- SG

if the present is passed to him... i am not the one who do passing... actually i dun wan to c him le.... since he doesnt wan to meet me

i dun know his army friends at all
if ask my bro to pass... does it also mean losing pride?

-ohyeah- SG

r u referring to me??

rainee SG

since he already dun wan to meet u, how are you going to pass him the present?

pls dun give sth to someone who will not appreciate it.

FeowFeow SG

If he doesn't want your present, No matter who passes to him, it's from YOU, right?

Anyway, if you don't consider it losing pride, then it's your decision. Please understand, whatever we say is of No use unless you yourself are convinced it's right. If you're Not convinced, by all means, please go ahead with what you want.

FeowFeow

Devil1976 SG

Because you knows that you still haven't gotten over things despite what ya saying now?

Whatever you've said IN THE PAST. DONE. The 'friend' thing was probably just to make you feel a bit better? That's all? Don't get too carried away... Cool

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