How do i know if im over him?

babyreyes SG

Its like more than 2 mnths since our split.

I dont feel sad over him anymore. Neither do i feel sweet inside when i think back on the things he did for me.

I didnt really avoid places we used to hang out.

Right now, theres no love inside. No hatred for those past hurt. somehow accepted everything already.

is this normal? am i really over him?

tut4nkh4m3n SG

for god’s sake, you know when you are over him or not, do you really have to ask us?

falling_stars SG

If you still ask this question then probably your still not completey forgotten about him.

If you do you won't have thought so much about it.

leo-kun SG

yes this is normal and you have gotten over him
and is time to look forward to life

Tier SG

Congratulations I guess you have truely got over him. its a great news. Enjoy your single life now! Laughing its best to forgive and forget and you dun feel anything matter at all. keep it up!!

SBS9828X SG

see if his under u Laughing

babyreyes SG

i feel abit abnormal coz i have frens who broke up with her bfs much earlier htan me. Yet they are like still crying buckets of tears over it. And hteirs ended like 6 to 12 mnths ago.

a bit werid leys. or maybe different pple different reaction. hmm..

DrTech SG

Maybe you didn't enjoy your relationship?

Anyway, just look ahead and move on...

laosu SG

Why bother if your reaction towards your fail r/s is different from others?

zeny SG

Hi babyreyes

Gives babyreyes a warm and friendly hugz.

You are going through a process of breakup and I can say that you are doing fine. Just keep on the good work and soon you will be free of him and let a carefree life.

How to guage whether you are truely over him? Easy lar. Go out with him and celebrate his bd or go out with him for any outing but you do not feel a single thing for him. Even he try to sweet talk you or try to do silly stunts to make you notice him but your heart does not feel a bit touch by his action.

This process is very normal and its call "letting it go". Pats pats. Btw you need not compare with your friends becos you are more mature than them and is smart enough to let go when the time comes.

ShrodingersCat SG

Need to ask means not yet loh

When you realise you forget to even think of him one whole day, getting better..
One whole week and it surprises you, beri good
One whole month and you aren't counting, lagi best
See his picture, can laugh and no need think too much,
Win Liao!