The person I like most getting married

laosu SG

Is ok...we both are very much aware of this... but thanks anyway.

In my case, I don't think it'll apply to me. In my previous post, I've already mention briefly the things we are facing in this r/s and we did have talk about it. I admit we are madly in love but we aren't blinded by it because of the problems we are facing forced us to face reality too.

I'm not young anymore and neither am I that old but I know both of us are sensible enough to know that love isn't just about feelings but alot more. It's efforts and understandings from both parties to hold this r/s strong. It's not an easy path for both of us and I'm really touched that she's willing to take this big risk with me together.

Tell me, after all these, how can I bear to let her down by giving up first?

laosu SG

Thanks dragg.
I wish myself the best too and I really needed it.

FeowFeow SG

Hi Laosu,

I won't probe too much into your relationship, I understand that this would be private. In any case, you're mature & sensible enough to conduct your own relationship, & I'm quite confident that you'll know what the best course to take is : )

I'm sorry that external matters are putting pressures on your gf, & it's a horrible thing (don't know for sure what external pressures they are, but I think I can make a guess Neutral Not that I hope I get it right Neutral ) to experience when both of you love each other so much.

All I can offer is best wishes that both of you can conquer those obstacles in your way & that your relationship will withstand those difficulties faced.

FeowFeow

Devil1976 SG

Cool .....

laosu SG

Haha...make a wise guess...I'll tell you if you are right.

laosu SG

Honestly speaking, I'm skeptical about the future and I'm not sure if this relationship will last but neither am I going to do nothing about it. Been planning for our future and working hard trying to make more money so that she won't have to slog her whole life. Even if we ended up in separate ways, I don't think I'll ever regret giving her my heart.

As for our problems, I guess I just have to learn the harshness of reality but like I say before, I'm not going to give up. I'll wait even if it means 10yrs..20yrs..30yrs. She definitely worth me making the effort. Probably the only thing that breaks my heart now is that she's the one facing the pressures more than I did. At times I do give a thought if I should just end it all and end her misery. Tough. Take it I'm selfish but I really do love her.

aRcTiC_sTaR SG

*applauds*

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