confused

collateral SG

i've been liking this gal for sometime now...bud during our conversations, meetings and sms i can't c any clue if she is intrested in me anot...most of the time i'm the 1 who initiate 1st...i'm goin to confess my feelings to her bud am afraid of rejection...wad should i do?

thanks....

SoulFire21 SG

u sld wait awhile first..don do anything in a rush

mink77 SG

ask her out once a while…. test water first.

SoulFire21 SG

i agreed with him..
don b like a failure like me
as long as once in a while keep contact wif her can liao

mink77 SG

body language are tell tale signs whether she likes u... eg. the way she behave in front of u compared to other guys or the way she talk to u etc.

and also, girls like confident guys. show ur confidence when u confess to her and dont behave like a wuss if she reject u. rejection is part and parcel of growing up and u learn from it.

StarPuppy SG

any more advice?

M©+square SG

Twisted Evil Tsk Tsk.

DrTech SG

I would say, take it slow... enjoy the time you spend with her... don't become obsessive... just have patience.

And when you feel that the time is right... pop the question... and expect the unexpected.

zeny SG

ask yourself why should she like you?

1) are you handsome?

2) are you smart?

3) do you have the money to bring her out?

4) can you make her laugh?

5) how much do you like her?
a) if she ask you to buy an expenisve item will you buy it for her?

6) is she worth the trouble?

Sleeping Forest SG

be patience,wait till e day u r sure she has a bit of feelings for u then take actions. otherwise,u might scare her and hurt e frenship.

gabriel_gab SG

some things cannot be rushed…

rainee SG

talk to her, take the time to know her more. once she is more comfortable with spending time and being together with you...then you can ask her how she feels towards you Wink

WiNtEr'SkiLL SG

maybe hint her once in a while but do not rush

bid ur time
take the correct opportunity
Neutral

Airforceone SG

Man must be thick skin a bit. But if in the end there is a rejection don’t be too sad. Take it as a learning experience.

VampireEB SG

If she sms you lesser and lesser meaning she’s not interested in you..get wat i mean?

Devil1976 SG

If you're AFRAID of REJECTION, then DON'T ASK?

MOREOVER, you don't see much of any 'hint' or sign that she might be interested in you Question

Devil1976 SG

Cool

hxm SG

if a girl smses a guy alot, it might not mean that she likes him. some will paiseh mah, then don't dare. they also scared the guy think she like him then spoil the friendship. Embarassed Cool

htc SG

i supposed this is kinda true that our beloved species from venus like confident people, but it can't be rushed, u can do things slowly that will make her heart skip a beat, but if rejected, dun sink into depression. smile it out, at least she will remember u kindly

qooorange SG

give her a kiss Wink