Should I wait or should I start?

stupidbirds SG · 2005-11-26T01:53:21+00:00

hey threadstarter, i realised i m also like u..always thinking if the other person ur talking to will be friendly to us anot..are all scorpios like this?

stupidbirds SG

OK I want to have opinions so here's the question. I'm actually quite a friendly person BUT that's only when I get talked to first. I always tot only those people who take the initiative are actully intertested to have a conversation with you. like for example on msn. i dun talk to others first for fear of receeiving an "entertainment" reply. so how do others actually manage to talk to others so easily?

Thank You SG

Dun tok to others first....yep...that's really frenly man...

Laughing

hyperactivechatterbox SG

What do you mean by “entertainment&quote” reply? Besides, if you take the initiative to talk, you can tell whether he or she is interested or not by the reply…

maxilite SG

ppl like u r quite common, appear antisocial but r actulli jus plain shy/thinking abt other’s feelings before ownself’s…i’m one of them….lolx… change it.. like above, u’ll know their thinking when/if they reply…=) continuing like this will onli make ppl think u r antisocial….

trajet SG

Actually it's normal... U may feel uneasy.... other ppl also feel the same as you... They also worry whether u r friendly... whether u will talk back to them, whether u will like to them also... The thing is that if u and the person keep quiet... then no one talks... If this goes on and on.... someday u may lose ur present friends. Not because you are selfish or anything.... but because they just do not know what to start to talk with you about... So.. just try to initiate more...

WiNtEr'SkiLL SG

maybe if u start a simple conversation, other topics will come in and it will be a nice chat

Devil1976 SG

Talk when ya feel like talking? Mr. Green

SGEMP SG

I suggest you, please wait for a while, and observe more about your friends.

Then when you feel like you are very ready and very confident of the whole thing, GO ON AND START!!!

Remember, waiting pays, at least you have some precious buffer time to ready yourself!

SGEMP SG

But please, be prepared before you start on anything!

dragg SG

just talk lar.

Ito_^ SG

u should start.. but dun force yrself la.. Laughing seriously alot of times, i really dun feel like talking.

browniebaobao SG

Attended a tutorial class juz now..

im the odd one out in the whole class.. coz they already know each other since last semester or earlier..

feel so unhappy inside..none of them actually welcome me or watever.. except one guy beside me keep asking me abt the tutorial etc.. really feel lousy leh.. v unfriendly. notice they like to talk to the pple beside them only, even if they are in a group...most of the times bz playing with their lappy.

i suay suay kena put into a guys' group.. really nth to talk abt. haiz.

ghimpheng SG

Thick face is the key to it and finding topic

Yunhaier SG

Are you a Taurus, Leo, Scorpio or Aquarius?

Cheers

stupidbirds SG

Scorpio. Dark and mysterious.

weijie1985 SG

hmm i was like this.. but u nid to actually start it urself.. once u get used to it, u’ll realised most ppl actually are willin to tok..

zeny SG

Just learn to crap lar… people will open up to you lar..

Yunhaier SG

The four signs I have mentioned tend to be more reserved compared to other zodiac signs. This is due to the 'fixity nature' of the signs involved. Of course, it doesn't mean it is a 'bad' quality, just that you could probably do better if you understand what it means by initiative - instead of playing responding roles? Idea

Cheers

ChEeSeLover SG

People who can’t stop messaging me on msn when we have absolutely nothing to talk about.

rachel85 SG

Some time u might feel that u are actually entertaining ppl but it might not be the case lohz...
Maybe ppl are glad that u actually start the ball rolling and make the atmosphere better lohz...
I'm kind of a person like u too so I tink that i knw wat u really thinking abt now lohz...
But no worries frens...
Being friendly is not wrong... Laughing