compiling the signs that she is interested in u

last SG · 2005-11-21T14:12:49+00:00

hm... touch, yep touch, hope this won't scr3w me up

leddy SG

you know the thing ppl always talk about body language? there are many times i felt it was so obvious, but then I’ve been really wrong about it. so nowadays, unless the girl confirm in words, I’ll not assume she’s interested in me

M©+square SG

Never assume.

Never do that.

leddy SG

yeah man, never ever assume..coz there are girls who would be 'extra' friendly to you esp when they want favours from you... and there are those who just want to be everybody's best friend.

so ladies, if u complain that guys are not receptive to your signals... dont blame us for being insensitive... coz many girls b4 you have been sending us the wrong signals...

you know it's so easy.. the best way girls can sent the right signals and being subtle without telling a guy straight forward is simply, open ur mouth and invite the guy out!

huiz SG

inviting him out to a gathering wif the gal's fren & her bf. Laughing

ChEeSeLover SG

There's no sure way of knowing without asking her. Don't try to read too much into her actions because usually you'll not be correct. Females are complex creatures. There have been cases of guys here in SgForums having their hopes high, 'cause some girl start calling him or smsing him often. But later they find out she's just playing and they get pretty sad after that. Not all girls are like that but don't rush into anything or try to interpret her actions. Take it slow, or just ask her.

LazerLordz SG

From my own experience and the friends I know.

LazerLordz SG

this is quite possible.

htc SG

thats is too cruel!! Mad
i'll prefer if the ladies will just tell straight away that she is attached or doesn't wish to step beyond the boundary of friendship.
yep some guys out there defininatly wouldn't quit.
but for me, short suffer better than long suffer(chinese phrase?)

Sekundes SG

Signs :

Willing to talk to u late till late night.
Hmm willing to go out with u alone.
Smiles everytime she sees you.
Likes to tell u about herself and starts telling u her expectations of Guys.
like to sms u when she's bored or doing somethings.
Concern about you when ever anything happen. Small probs to big probs.

Then again some girls sometimes exhibit this behavior.
Though they just treat u as friends.
A gal really likes you will be shy sometimes. haha..

tats for my experiance.

FeowFeow SG

How you know??? Mr. Green Is that how you conned Auntie Yun into falling in love with you? Twisted Evil

FeowFeow

WiNtEr'SkiLL SG

=( wish i know

FeowFeow SG

Erm Confused

Machim say until it's the girls' fault like that What about the guys who zi zuo duo qing? There're some guys who read too much into friendly actions, & think a girl likes them simply because she wants to talk? Or simply because she's being friendly?

If that's the case, then I must have been interested in over 1000000000 guys already, & counting, even though I'm HAPPILY attached! Rolling Eyes

FeowFeow

FeowFeow SG

1. Willing to talk to you till late at night Just keeping you company.
2. Willing to go out with you alone Close friend see movie together got wrong meh?
3. Smiles everytime she sees you Don't you smile when you see a friend?
4. Likes to tell you about herself You mean you don't tell your friends anything about yourself?
5. Likes to SMS you when she's bored or doing something Of course I'll find someone to bug when I'm bored.
6. Concerned about you whenever anything happens Wah Biang, I'd better Not show concern for friends anymore if that can be mistaken as liking a friend Rolling Eyes

FeowFeow

numby SG

haha...these days ppl seems so friendly...everyone is everyone good or best friends

everytime when u tot he/she is interested in u...turn out is not but when u tot dat person wun ever likes u...turn out is opp way...

nightzip SG

so, in that case, there are no signs to watch mah? Rolling Eyes

like that how to know if a gal like a guy leh?

biggest hint, i guess:
when u invite a gal to ur house alone, she agrees... Laughing

FeowFeow SG

I suppose there are, maybe she looks into your eyes a whole lot more, & it's Not only when she's speaking to you, it's every so often, even when you guys are quiet?

The previous scenarios given are kinda too risky to assume a girl likes you because she does those things which can be done with any close friend Rolling Eyes I'm really thanking my lucky stars my buddy (who's been buddies with me since like, 14 years ago) didn't mistake me for liking him the closer we got as friends I did all those things because he was like my older brother, & he's still pretty much like an older brother now.

FeowFeow

huiz SG

it is not possible. it is true. Laughing

Yunhaier SG

I am gong gong?? Evil or Very Mad Twisted Evil Laughing

Cheers

deathscythe99 SG

Not necessary? Laughing

deathscythe99 SG

That's the worse part Confused

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