i hope u r honest with ur answers.
in dat case, be a man, and confront her, tell her your thoughts and
listen to hers. Remember. love cannot be forced upon. If she says
she love you, ask her for her fears and tell her yours. The key is
to be frank & open so that nothing is hidden that could one day
jeopardise your relationship.
Prove to her family and urs that you know what u r doing. the best
way to do so is to have your goals set and your workplan
ready.
Only you can help urself. Stand up and make people take notice of
what you say and do. Earn their respect so that they will respect
you no matter how young you are.
Let me tell you, there are plenty of 30 year old guys out there who
dont even know what they want in life and how to get there.
Sincerely from a friend.....