I used to be very frightened also, but I learnt to look right at
the back, so that I don't make direct eye contact with people.
Nowadays, having gotten used to it, when I talk, I sometimes look
at those people I know & smile before saying something
humourous.
But my nephew hor, talking to ONE girl on the phone also got
problem 
Qi si wo le!
FeowFeow
