LOVE or $$$ ?

trajet SG

I try to be objective... "love or money?"
To women: Difficult question... cant expect an honest answer, too confusing between love or money... They want bad boy but has good side... Romantic but can be tough... Rich but humble... poor but have a class... mysterious but honest... So how women r goin to tell u whether they choose love or money??

To men: Expect Neither money nor love from women.. guys want pretty face, nice body and sex.. as simple as that hahaha

VampireEB SG

Good .. best explanation!

HolySniper SG

wootz! good man! Laughing

Manager433 SG

I'm trying very hard to look for a low maintenance gf.

stellazio SG

both.. Laughing

mach10 SG

Dithing a woman is easy...
Saying no is a matter of opening your mouth and saying "NO"...

Finally, if she cannot even manage her own finance well, ask her to buzz off!! coz she will surely make you the poorest man on earth, confirm + guarantee! Embarassed

FeowFeow SG

Please don't generalise, & please don't gender bash local girls.

I don't look at a guy's money. He can use it to wipe his damn a$$.

So sick of this kinda generalisation remarks.

FeowFeow

Blueskyz SG

[quote]Originally posted by FeowFeow:
[b]Please don't generalise, & please don't gender bash local girls.

I don't look at a guy's money. He can use it to wipe his damn a$$.

So sick of this kinda generalisation remarks.

FeowFeow

Totally agreed with the above.

Pls note that not all gals r materialistic.. but i dont deny the no. r increasing.. Neutral

Most of my friends including myself look for love n not money..

What's the point of having all the money in the world n the guy does not love u at all??

Money is something that can be earn so long as we r willing to work..

But Love is something that money cant buy.. n its priceless..

mink77 SG

my ex left bcos i m in debt.
not all girls are materialistic.. yes i agree but in the long run, do u think they will want to stick by you thru tough times and suffer with you...

true love r hard to come by in this realistic society.

Blueskyz SG

Truly agreed this is a realistic society...

But when cloudy days r over.. can the guys guarantee they wil stil be wif their gf.. lets say if they suddenly strike it rich..

The ans is probably "no" cos when guys hav money, they wil look for greener patches.. n all temptations wil start pouring in..

This is when the gf wil feel they r "idiots".. went thru so much for their guy n in the end.. betrayed by the man they love most..

Pls note that I'm jus quoting.. not "personal attack".. ( seen a lot of real life incidents of frens n relatives )

Devil1976 SG

That would depends on the kind of relationship you're having with her...?

htc SG

2 sides of the coin,

2 different scenerios,

but sometimes, its the same ending...

picture urself poor, u have a girlfriend. she is ur life, ur hope in the world tml.
u tell urself u will work hard so that one day u can marry her, and be happy till the end of both of ur lives.
one day after a tired day at work, u saw her holding another guy's hand charading into a expensive car. u lose the aim of ur life, u feel tired, regret, till the end of ur miserable existence...

now flip the coin

u r a business man, ur company is starting to do very well, u have a lovely wife, u'r proud of her, u truly worked hard for her comfort. both ur heart beat as one, or so u think...
but when u decide to surprise her by leaving early(from work). bought a bouquet a rose, a box of her favourite chocolate and a bottle of champagne. just to enter ur bedroom to see her romp with ur neighbour.
u ask urself, is it ur fault? did u not give her enough attention? were u never(never ever) at her side?

wad will u feel then? when she look into ur feverish eyes? will she be feeling guiltly, as u r towards her, or will she shrug it off sheeplishy? how do i answer that? i never know, for losers like me will never understand...

FeowFeow SG

Don't you think both scenarios are too stereotypical? Rolling Eyes

FeowFeow

ghimpheng SG

he thinking way too negative I guess and the suitation is a general suitation I guess to him

M©+square SG

Common...maybe my friends suay.

Laughing

weijie1985 SG

both.

MetalGear SG

Aiyoh... this kind of thing. Dun need to argue one lah.

In today's world, you need both money and love. One must be realistic n idealistic at same time. It's retarded and stupid to be plain idealistic, it's painful and lonely to be totally realistic.

Women are attracted naturally to men who can give them emotional, physical and financial security.

Men are attracted to women who look good.

All this is built into our genes to produce a stronger and better set of offspring. Dun argue over this man. Of course there are exceptions. The key thing is to balance it.

A pretty girl is not going to just marry a poor man and stick with him when she can deserve better. In SG you need money, no buts about that. Get married.. buy flat... have children.. bills pay this.. pay that. You want to know the power of money? Talk to those men who lose their job for long with children n wife to feed, even though wife can financially support herself, she'll definitely look at the man differently.

i suppose majority of us here are young and still have not had the experience of running a family and have financial and emotional frustrations. But i watched jack Neo's old show last nite 'money not enough'. Can really understand... That's why i also understand why mroe n more singaporeans not getting married. It's too damn dangerous to just lose your job with a family!

in short, love and money has to go together and be balanced. Women are naturally attracted to money n power. No matter how much they deny it... In fact there's nothing wrong. just like men all love beautiful women. BUT sometimes an average looking women who know how to be a real lady, to pamper, to sayang n take care of her men are so much stronger points than her looks!

Cheers!

ChEeSeLover SG

Indeed, money is very important. Money can buy almost everything you need BUT money cannot buy love!

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