Today I am so angry because she would rather ask me for money
than ask from her husband or her other daughter.
True, she has been helping to babysit my two young kids. But I
provide her a monthly amount for this. On top of that, food and
travelling expenses are paid by me. I don't know why she is still
short of money, considering I am giving $800 last month which is
more than the previous month.
Frankly, I do not care for a single cent she claims will split up
(for selling her flat). All I want is to help her sell off her
flat, move house and she can use the cash to support themselves. I
know she mean what she said because she is very suspicious of me
being helpful with selling the flat and doing the financial
planning for her. The cash would probably last her 10 to 15 years,
if she live prugally. I will then leave them at that.
I cried myself because how did I end up this way. Stuck at home
with 2 kids and earning a miserable amount of income, and a
depleted bank account. And I have to support my parents/sister. I
hope to go back to work. Although after stopping for 3 and a half
years, I still want to join the workforce. My hubby does not
approve of my going to work.
I certainly did not feel good spending my hubby's money (he pays
for my credit card bill) and provides a monthly amount. I feel like
a leech and not someone earning my keeps.
My family just do not understand that even though my hubby is a
businessman, does not necessarily mean that I am RICH. IF I am
rich, I wouldn't be worrying now.
Tell me, if your brother-in-law is doing well, he has to support
your family is it??
