SingKoala SG I cant think, i m full of problems, and almost cant take it anymore..... every month money not enough to spend, and every month people called to chase for money......and to pay this and that..... my life is in a mess......divorce with two kids to take care....income not enough...cpf not enough, if sell house, i don know i can afford a flat or not...where m i going to live with my two kids..........................i really don know what to do.....HELP!!!! where can i find money??? what can i do???? i really don know???.....i still got mom medical bill to pay.....still got debt too..... pay pay pay..... siao liao soon....
a_splash SG one thing at a time... can u stay with your mum?? haizzz take care and be strong for your kids...
SingKoala SG too many things in my head....i cant really think...i wan to solve things one at a time but all problems come at the same time.....how to settle.... ever think of commit suicide but how about my kids i have to be strong to take this up...and keep telling myself.....to be strong to be strong and find a solution....but i cant .....
a_splash SG don't pls don't even give suicide a thot... pls be strong, definitely can find a way out?? even if its not the best....still there should be a way.... call some family service helpline??
SingKoala SG what is CCG sometimes cos of money, i even have the thought of selling myself, and earn that easy money for the time being to pay debts and all these...but is it worth it??? or should i do that??? i cant carry on like this....and debt is accumulating each month goes by.....i really scare and no one to depend on......
SingKoala SG if i do that....work as a pro.....what will my kids think of me when they find out in future?? is that really a best solution to my situation????
SingKoala SG what can CCG do for me???? i doubt they can really help me .....??????? Wish buddha comes and help me and bless me. Wish my money issue settle fast if not i don know what will happen to me and my kids.....
SingKoala SG instalment i brought last year.....laptop, and other stuffs which i brought by instalments, now i cant pay them they keep chasing for it.... can they take them away and stop the payment????
a_splash SG so its a case of mishandling of finance?? aiyo if cannot afford then don't buy lah....let them take lor....
a_splash SG wrong....purpose of hp is to make u buy...if cannot afford then don't buy....anyway that's my own point....i neber like to commit to loans....time flies, every month the bills will come and kill u.... i only take it up if i know i can pay...
laosu SG Not bad....in debts and still got money to apply for internet. You definitely are doing much better than me. Anyway, do approach town counsil and ask to speak to the MP and ask for aids. Once granted, you'll recieve help to tide over these period. Mom's medical bills you can talk to the hospital for installment payment. 99% you'll get it approved. For other commitment like installments for laptops or whatever, stop all the first and settle the more important stuffs. If they wanna take back the laptop..let them.
SingKoala SG now i work also got problem, am i so bad luck all these while.... a lot of things are all turn against me and not smooth....and even work also got problem, follow instructions also got scolding and blame for mistake.... how to work? how to work with all the problems in my mind??? how to work if i just follow instruction still get scolding, so confusing???? what can i do to improve my situation??? I want to work from home, but can I? ever work as tutor coordinator but don earn much....plus i really need CPF badly....btw i am working as part time admin also where salary is not much and cpf also not really enough..... If i can work at home as tutor coordinator again and work hard to get the money and top up my own cpf, do you think it work?????
