Dear Airbus330Captain,
From what I've read, all of you seem rather young, perhaps younger
than 25? At this age, both guys & girls haven't yet formed a
full idea of what they want (i.e. many of them, I'm Not saying
every young person feels like that). She may have some issues of
her own, & it's better you steer clear from having a
relationship with her, unless you're willing to risk being deeply
hurt (in your later posts, you've mentioned you're gonna give up,
which seems sensible at the moment).
It's better to find your soulmate later, than to be stuck in an
unhappy relationship (or worse, marriage). There're some mistakes
which are better learnt from people who've experienced it, than to
experience it yourself. A broken heart is far from pleasant, &
even more so when you hafta admit to yourself, "I should've seen it
coming, but I chose to be blind to it".
You may feel disappointed or listless for awhile, but having
friends around you will help. Go out with them, have fun, &
enjoy yourself. When you ultimately find a relationship, you'll
need to put in alot of effort 
So enjoy yourself to the max whilst you can 
FeowFeow
