Aiya Simple Bear, even in this day & age, girls can still be
shy lorr. Granted, many are willing to make the 1st move now, but
if they don't receive any response or confirmation, it'll be
difficult for them to continue.
You're like my nephew (coincidentally, both of you are the same
age). He's so shy & passive. But as I've told him, just like
money doesn't grow on trees, girls don't deliver themselves to your
doorstep 
You must also biao shi biao shi mah 
FeowFeow