is she your gf or just a friend?
I assume is your gf lah
sounds like my gf.
trust is definitely needed in a relationship.
my gf does that to me too but I deal it with another way
when I know something is bothering my gf, initially I'll try to see
if she wanna talk about it, but if she doesn't, then I'll just
leave her to it but I'll always assure her that if she ever wanna
talk to me about it, I'll always be there for her.
sometimes at this kind of situations, I would rather think that she
need more assurance from me than to think that she dun trust me or
any of that sort.
i'll just carry on having a normal conversation with her and drop a
hint every now and then to assure her that you are there for her.
when she cools down and feel like talking about it, she'll
naturally tell you.
anyway, if she says it's over and don't wanna talk about it
"ANYMORE" then just let her be. don't ever expect her to snap out
of her emotions immediately after the incident is solve. she'll
need time to cool down too.
be a bit more considerate towards her during this period. she needs
your support more than anything else now. if you get upset with her
for not wanting to tell you what's wrong, then she'll be more
upset. it'll only make her feel worse.
