He really has serious problems, maybe even depressions. It will
be hard for you to help him becasue in his current state he may
reject you becasue he doesn't feel like to open up to anyone. You
must be strong for yourself and for himself, I know it's very hard,
I am in a similar situation. You must stand by him even when he
doesn't want, show him that you care, but carefully, step by step.
It will hurt you when he rejects you, your help, he will sure hurt
you, tell you words which hurt you, but you must be strong becasue
he isn't himself now. Don't come too close too fast, if it is
needed, make one or two steps back, you must be patient. Try to
endure, I am trying that too though sometimes I feel like giving
up, but keep fighting.
Good luck!
