Originally posted by SGEMP:
Dear everyone
I, SGEMP, is a loyal member of sgForums, and a secondary 3 Express
student
Just now in the HKitalk's (a.k.a. italk) A7 (job and education)
board, there is a topic on how to be an ace in academic/studying
life.
http://www.hkitalk.net/HKiTalk2/viewthread.php?tid=45272&fpage=1
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(PS: I am not a member of italk.)
In response, other boardmates (also known as iMember)
replied:
(translated from the Chinese Traditional reply of "ccicoltd")
[b]"Aces usually have tuitions on numerous subjects, so they are
actually dependant on their tuition agencies to get past the
grade.
Pay attention in class and use your own efforts are only second to
tuition."
Meanwhile, now, I noticed that many of my classmates were on
tuition (some even after exams), while I used my own hard efforts,
with no tuition,
often studying late into the night, and at worse sometimes without
sleeping for the whole night at all.
(The main reason was, in my primary school era, I had attended
tuition with my twin elder brother, but there were still no
improvement on my grades, and so driving me to a conclusion that
tuition does not help my grades, only pull down my grades. And so I
detested going for tuition since.)
Hence I sincerely
believed that this is all because I have some serious
inefficiencies in my method of studying as compared to the
others.
And now what I got for the EoY 2005 is as this:
EL - just a narrow pass with the help of oral exam in the early of
this year.
Some others are far better than me.
And that was despite my hard efforts, my close focus on my weak
areas, and my frequent consultation with my teachers and sometimes
my peers for tips on improvement, accompanied with implementation
of all their advicees and suggestions.
CL - Others topped my class, despite my hard efforts and my close
focus on my weak areas.
For all others, they were mostly satisfactory for me.
But for Social Studies, I was at some distance from the
passing grade, and needing urgent help for further improvements,
all despite of my hard efforts, my deep focus on my weak areas, and
my frequent consultation with my teacher for tips to improve my
grades in this subject.
(And so another thread would be started here by me over
this.)
Also, I had for the overall passed all the seven O' level subjects
I am taking as a Secondary 3 student about to be promoted to
secondary 4 express next year, despite my not-so-impressive showing
in my social studies.
However, sadly, I could not top in any subjects, even my simplest
subject CL, in recent years, despite my hard efforts, and despite
seeing others only getting 4 to 5 O' level subjects overall passes,
with a few having far better English standards than me. (One of the
better-than-me-in-English classmate attends tuition even till this
day, as far as I know for today.)
And concluding from all my abovementioned items, to have
speedier, further improvement of my grades (especially my EL grades
and standards), better efficiency and strategy in my learning
process, and to reduce the "burn midnight oil" without sleep
incidences, I sincerely believed that it is better for me to go for
tuition.
(However the decisions to send me into tuitions are typically
decided by my parents, not me.)
(Also from my observations from all the resources, I found
out that should one attend tuition is very conflicting for me to
consider about it.)
And so what do you think about my desire to go for tuition?
Should I? Or should I not?
Also does it mean that paying attention in class and using
my own efforts does not help???
And so is there any faster, more efficient shortcut methods
and strategies available for me to study and to revise, so that I
do not need to burn midnight oil without sufficient
rest?
Also I would appreciate if more tips to improve my English
standards were given, (in the relevant topic).
Thank you for your kind suggestions and advices.
Yours faithfully
SGEMP
[/b]
If you can, get some tuition for your weaker subjects...
Else, at least ask for some guidance from your friends when you
don't understand certain points...
Last but not least... Get a study group which doesn't meet up too
often (maybe once or twice a week) to get each other in various
subjects...