Yah i told her the similar things like what u said...but after 3
years she can't change her mindset. 
So forth year break up with her after all the scoldings & tekan
that i reward her abt what she said something hurtful to her
parents, siblings & whining about how she envy others who got
this & that.
I'm just another ah beng gangster who know how to scold & shout
at people when they do things wrongly.....until now my heart is
like this===> 
