You better put in alot of effort into a relationship if you
really feel that she's worth your time. When I say alot, I mean a
f*cklot.
With a normal relationship, you should seek to be boyfriend and
husband material at the same time. but with a long distance
relationship, you got to do that and multiply that presence by
almost 2 times.
To be in love is a wonderful thing, so don't ever give up because
you're not physically together. It's a test, absence makes the
heart grow fonder, and it does. Beyond conversations, there's video
conferencing, love letter sending (see yea i know there's email,
but there's nothing half as magically romantic as pen and paper; it
doesn't have to be words, it can be a cute drawing, to origami).
Send her gifts and presents, there are many ways to do that, you
can buy in SG and send up, or you can just pick up the phone and
call someone in the region to deliver and charge to your
card.
Let her know you miss her, and be open with her, you know that this
girl is special when you can look her in the eye and be yourself;
do not be afraid to show any side of you, even you doing er xin
stuff like farting or burping .. an sms periodically, once in the
morning, out of the blue, just to let her know that you think of
her.
Then when it comes to being reliable and secure, let her know that
you'll put in all the effort in the world to make sure it works
out, bring yourself down to earth and tell her to never ever leave
you.
Hey I'm telling you all this not to teach you how to sian charboh
ok, but do it only because you truely feel it .. but then again, in
any case .. unless you truely feel that way, you probably wouldn't
be able to do it anyway .. don't ever lead her on for nothing, if
you don't feel that way, end it now, save yourself the time pain
and trouble; and her too.
All the Best,
SupaFatty
