some advise needed

Laguna83 SG

OK i have noe this gal during my attachment, i have like her since than but that time she has a bf so i did not make any move. How i noe is through her friendster that she is in a relationship. But recently she has change her profit to single, so i was wondering is she really single now or still attach? So gals will u change to single status while u still in a relationship and wats the reason? Thanks for the advise Very Happy

gerrykoh SG

Arrange a group outing & ask her out.
Use this opportunity to chat with her & find out how she is, casually ask abt her bf.

drx SG

My serious advice to anyone out there.

Please do not trust the profile inside friendster.

Tier SG

hmm I think either she has problem with her relationship or just break up bah. either way its not a right timing to start your wooing plan. Cool

seraphsigma SG

Why not just hang out with her more as a friends first without any agenda? THat would allow you to get to know her status, and to get to know her better too.

Arena SG

Why not?

Kennerve SG

+1

Ask her directly for God sake.. If you are serious abt her.. take ur first step now.

dokono SG

Yeah tat's something similar im facing now...the thing is sometimes in friendster the status is "in a relationship" and you see a pictures of the gal u like with another guy...u start to wonder if she is really attached?

The question is : how much can friendster be trusted? My point of view is that it depends on how much the person uses friendster to update her profile. Sometimes i wonder if it would be better to ask her out or ask her directly.

Burgerking SG

Wait no more.

starblue SG

just ask her directly. why trust a profile when you can hear it for yourself?

nightsky87 SG

Yep.

If you want to go after her, you must be able to get along well with her in the first place, right? And by getting along, I'm sure it means that both of you can talk to each other..

ditzy SG

Because in friendster, I am female but I use a guy's pic and put in my profile that I'm a guy. The above statement is for example only. Laughing

ghimpheng SG

ask her out as a friend then slowly find out she have a bf or not or find out thru her friend/s

Laguna83 SG

This is a gd ideal but dunno can jio her out anot Smile

Laguna83 SG

if ask her directly like too obvious liao

Laguna83 SG

Thanks ppl for all ur valuable inputs Very Happy