We all once own a
kind of puppy Love and we all know that it wouldn't last eventually
as our early love evince evidence of failing. Despite that, are we
truly going to seal a relationship just because we know for certain
that it wouldn't last? Which is more important? The ongoing process
of understanding WHAT a relationship is all about or to keep
pondering about long term relationship that must hint marriage?
Logically speaking, it is the latter... but at her tender
age??
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You are just walking
along Love's inaugural journey - the stage where we are taught our
expression of feelings and emotions, reacting to that of a
once-stranger... once-mere-friend. Your jealousy is a reflection of
your fledgling emotions losing control due to incoming
circumstances. You are unable to grasp hold of this new found
emotion and it ran wild like chicken in a field. Some people never
found the key to keep it stable - always experiencing petty
jealousy in love, both big and small.
Your boyfriend, likewise, is on the road in experimenting Love.
Everything seemed like a small matter to him because it doesn't
seem a big deal at all because we are talking about puppy love -
which trait is such that as long as I love you and you love me,
everything else doesn't actually matters... god sis or not.
If learning to you is about passing your exam and the way is to
study and memorised dead formula, you will do that because you want
your paper at the end of the day. However, you will not acquire the
essence of learning in that way, which will benefit you until you
draw your last breath. This is the same as Love: man who doesn't demonstrate
affection or romance by personality, will probably only 'perform'
them in the beginning of the relationship or during chase as a
selling factor. One of the reason why this
loving...sweetie romance don't last is because it is not within
your man's character to do so. It is done because it seemed
essential to do so... to tackle you.
That is the reason why woman, after a couple of bad relationships,
become resistance to flippant words and romance. They grew cynical
in love, knowing that flowers, gifts and such is but methods
employed by man to get them to fall in love. They became so afraid
to step into the boundary of Love and fear if this man is like the
one before.
You people are relatively young; please do not think that he is THE
ONLY one for you. Relationship is unfathomable - one can never
judge it's success due to a certain phrase, like honeymoon. Your
REAL relationship begins after your honeymoon period, for that
differentiate a substantial relationship from that of a false
one.
P.S: Keep learning. You will get better at handling your emotions
and relationship. I usually have the same advice for young people
like yourself - better to understand emotions
and the 'rules' to this game of love, then to pay the price at much
later stage in life. 
Cheers
