wa. when i read your post, i was a bit shocked at first.
i thought you are my friend ar. hahaha
ok. i have a very very very similar experience like yours.
i have a group of friends who likes to accept anyone who looks very
ke lian and have no friends.
my story is this.
during the second year, we got into a new class together. and there
was this guy in our new class who introduced himself to us and keep
talking to us like very friendly like that. initially, i thought
nothing of it. like, he so friendly, then i also friendly back to
him lor.
then after that, when he told us his name, i was like, "eh? this
name very familiar hor? where have i heard it before ar?" and i
thought for many days u know.
until one day i went to my sec sch fren's blog (he's in the same
course as me as well) and he was writing about this new guy in my
new class! coz last year they were in the same class. then i
remembered. this guy ar...he is notorious for being backstabber and
he likes to stick damn close to ppl one. very bu yao lian de. and
he did many bad things to my sec sch friend too. my sec sch fren,
ironically, was the one who asked everyone to befriend him
too.
so i was wondering should i tell my friends about it? i mean, i
don't want to spoil any friendships also by creating rumours and
gossip, although, the whole course of ppl also know about this guy
and everyone don't want to be friends with him.
so i didn't say anything.
as days pass by, he really become more and more bu yao lian and all
his true colours showed. he liked to behave as though he's part of
the group. and he likes to say stupid things like when i bought
food and shared with everyone, there was this guy friend who say he
don't want to eat ma. then i just play play force feed him, tell
him he must eat ar! then the bu yao lian said, "see how much she
loves you." in a very sarcastic disgusting manner lor.
irritating.
then he likes to sit in the middle of all of us. he will just
purposely squeeze in between us even though there is no space for
another person le lor. or he will just put away somebody's bag and
sit next to us. very no manners!
all the stupid things he says and things he do soon got on our
nerves very much.
i remember one incident.. my friends and i were chatting about the
kind of guys we like right...
then i say, "oh..i like guys who are fair and skinny. and cannot
wear specs."
then he said, "wa. why you look at appearance one?"
then i said, "don't everybody look at appearance first?" <
then he said a lot of nonsense about how shallow i am to look only
at appearance.
then finally i got very fed up. i said, "ya. i look at appearance
one can! that's why i don't like you!"
waaa....at that time, i think everyone was stunned when i said
that. then i felt guilty when i saw his face, like still trying to
smile like that. i was about to apologise when he suddenly laughed
like it was the funniest thing ever.
machiam siao lor.
then i thought he would leave us alone le. but NO! he stuck to us
closer than ever!
so there was this second incident.
i was waiting for my friend and my classmates, seeing me so ke
lian, waiting alone, they waited with me too. so that irritating
guy also waited with us la..coz he don't want to be left out of
things what.
then suddenly he said, "what are we waiting for huh? why she cannot
wait by herself?"
then i said, "i also nv ask you to wait. you can go first one
what." i said it in a very irritating manner...>"< very mean
i admit.
then he laughed and said, "waa..why you so fierce one."
i said, "coz i don't like you and i see no point in being nice to
yoU!"
then i walked away.
from that day onwards, i think he was quite scared of me. he still
sticks with my group of frens but he avoids me whenever possible.
which is good. i was wondering how many times must i tell him i
dislike him before he get my message. so maybe u can try
that.
