BF knowing gals in Internet

smudgey SG

hiya norm like that it indicates that the guy is not ready to commit. but i suggest a heart to heart talk… my bf and i still have accounts in lavalife…. we are ok with that…. depends on how secure u are in ur relationship

girltroubled SG

Thanks Laughing everyone for the replies.

He is a Regular and we onli meet up on Fri. I would be at his place during weekends lor.His mobile phone never rings and no sms come in too. But wat I dun understand is that y he still wans to go online & know gals? Does it consider cheating? And the best part is that he had registered 1 year ago..God knows if he did met them up. Sigh.. Sad Btw, we are in the midst of saving to get married lor Crying or Very sad Oh, I think he knew that I knew that he did registered as I used his computer during weekends. And yet he denied registering. Confused

margarita SG

if u dun like it, tell him. if he persist n u can't tolerate, dump him. in relationships there's no right or wrong. it's compatibility.

ditzy SG

It’s not about whether he has an account there or use it or whatever, its the simple thing of him hiding it from you. If he’s so close to you and like you said soon to be married, why is there the need to hide such things from you? He can just tell you the truth and spare the agony.

margarita SG

if he's not over the bar .. sometimes its happier to keep one eye close ..

mistyblue SG

if this is going to cause unhappiness, distrust and security problems ... you guys are really not ready to get any further and this need to be settled somehow - ie truthful talk ... hold off your thoughts of marriage (you not married so its reversible)

Women fears marrying the wrong guy...

macjoe SG

The more a person deny/hide the truth, the further the distance you should keep from him/her.

Cool

alexkusu SG

This sounds strange coming from u... is that a touch of concern and humanity Im detecting? Rolling Eyes

alexkusu SG

U meet ur bf onli on fri? there is a possibility of him cheatin on u Mon-Thurs rite?

Well, Im accidentaly seeing a girl who has a bf...who she meets only on Saturdays.

margarita SG

no phone ring or sms no necessary mean no affairs .. it can also mean he's very smart know how to hide .. n u not so smart didn't find out .. well jus word of caution.

coffeeortea SG

hmm, i was wondering, how do you feel about your relationship between each other, and how does he feel? does he feel the same? is he serious? i mean, for him to lie about something so small, i cant imagine what would happen when bigger problems arise next time..

mistyblue SG

yeah, heard some guys who play around have multiple hp

girltroubled SG

He didnt put his phone on vibrate or silent mode lor..

girltroubled SG

Yes, we do feel the same for each other. Imagine, we can plan 2 get married..
Anyway to check if he did meet up those gals??

Roxy_Gurl SG

Heya! I guess if u really want to find out anything.. u would have to create another account in wholivesnearyou and have post pics of pretty girls. Then test him out like asking if he’s single? By then u would know the answer. Do what’s the best for u.

smudgey SG

I have to agree with margarita... there's no right or wrong. if it really bothers you talk to him. but cool down first. I know we gals like to settle things ASAP. hence we tryto talk to our bfs while we are fired up. and since we are fired up, we naturally take on the offensive role... or our fingers will be pointing at him... Most guys, get all defensive and will lie or attack back....

that's why before you talk to him think of what to say, calm down. try to explain to him why is it affecting you. but stay in control of your emotions. MOST guys react better to the silent treatment than the rantings.

F.O.S SG

the nick sounds familiar, I read it somewhere the gal also claim the nick belongs to her bf too Confused

do you have another nick or you posted similiar topic b4?

ditzy SG

It's a website lah, www.wholivesnearyou.com lah. Laughing

margarita SG

actually i also caught my bf chat online with gals long ago n he also told the gals he's single. he said he only chat never meet up with the gals (but who knows) n technically he's single so he's not wrong ..

natually i was furious n i kick up a big fuss, scolded him upside down n said the buzz word "we breakup" .. n of course, he gave in Mr. Green

no reason for him to give up our relationship for an immature internet affair .. however, i still make him report every move, dun trust every word he said til i see with my own eyes etc .. happy not happy also scold him, torture him him for one month plus .. make sure he remember his mistake n won't do it again ..

is he still chatting online secretly? i really dun know but i'm sure he know the consequence if he does .. Twisted Evil

girltroubled SG

Nope, I didnt posted in anywhere else

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