Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Why are we discussing who to choose from when in
fact you are ALREADY in a relationship with B? If your position is
such that you are single and available, fine, you can have all the
time to make a decision even though ultimately you have not have a
decision at all, or make a decision in which you may ultimately
regret.
Your comparison merely shows how lack of understanding you have for
yourself, with regards to what you want in Love. Don't be mistaken,
both A and B doesn't matter to me - [b]what matters is what you are
looking for. So what if A is a flirt, rich, good
looking and B is the typical nice guy... the fact is that you have
two choices and when put into situations where you have choices -
you don't know what you want. In tarot (and CloUdiSm), this is
known as the Seven of Cups - the wish list.
You are touched by guy B, but you don't love him very much, then
why are you in a relationship with him? Is being 'touched' a reason
enough to justify a relationship? Many people can do many times to
make someone feel touched and loved, but the emphasise is not what
you do... more like what you feel and what you want.
What happens is that you are being subjected to temptation and the
fact that you are so vulnerable is because you don't really love
your bf very much. Of course! A truly satisfied woman cannot be
seduced; guy A understands this theory completely. There is a gap
in your fortification that surround your relationship - probably a
sooner/later thing before all is lost.
You cannot just claim that he is far too charming and irresistible-
you reciprocated his affection. 
Cheers [/b]
I second that.
This gal got a big problem with herself.
Honestly,
1) If she is single, i wud say go with type A
cos i do believe that Type B can sometimes be 'stony'
and stupid gals simply get stucked with guys like that.
Thats why there are gals who married their sec/high school
bfs wo looking around enough first.
And it also seemed like she is the type that prefers more
exciting
lifestyle.
2) But she is attached!!! so she got a big problem herself.
