a minor dilemma

starblue SG

wah lah.. you got see people drink water then suddenly spill on other people one meh?? Rolling Eyes dun liddat lah. give me constructive advice leh...

^spidee^ SG

How about sitting next to him in lecture? Have you gone past the introduction stage? Maybe find out his interests through his friends, see if he's in any clubs or likes particular sports.

CannyOng SG

Got! U either choke on it or trip while drinking... Laughing This one need a bit oscar skill!

starblue SG

we know each other in the tutorial lah.. we are in the same group... but i dun have mutual friends leh... and we dun usually sit together in the lectures then suddenly ask to sit with him super wad loh....

starblue SG

er.. ok, let's assume i have the acting skills.. so wad happens after that???

"oh my god, i'm sorry.. here, give me your shirt, i'll wash it for you."

Rolling Eyes Laughing

Simple_Bear SG

U need to be more thick skinned...

Mr. Green

huiz SG

hmm..i am in a similar situation except tat i get to talk to him over work. a few days ago, he actually gave me a lift to my bus stop together wif his dept colleagues. except tat i haven get any of his contacts yet. i heard tat he will leave my company one day but i dunno when exactly. i am scared tat he leaves b4 i get his contacts. how??? Sad how do u ask for someone's contacts? i am too paiseh to ask something like 'can i have ur msn email?' out of the blue. Confused

huiz SG

Laughing

how abt dropping some food with gravy instead? water will dry up one so he may say dun need. Mr. Green

smudgey SG

I say, go up to him and just ask him for his number.

i know it's bold, but sometimes boldness is appealing to the guys, besides in a few weeks you won't see him anymore so if there's any awkwardness, u wouldnt have to worry about facing him in tutorials...

Try and sit next to him, borrow a pen, pass a note?? etc...
Mr. Green

^spidee^ SG

initiate a conversation? guys can be shy too, although most may seem aloof about it..

Simple_Bear SG

I like gals who are bold...

Embarassed

CannyOng SG

Make sure yr drink is some nasty solvent like thick chocolate shake or sweet fruit juices that will real mess up his shirt or pants. After spill,die die sometimes must be done to make up for him ,like compensate his shirt ,pants or buy him a meal. He sure will not reject! Laughing

^spidee^ SG

or say you like his view on something during tutorial, and after tute, ask if he wanna discuss it further.. Very Happy

oh, and he's not attached yah?

CP25 SG

Hey Starblue,

be a brave lady n open up to him...hint to him that u like his company Very Happy
A wonderful friendship, or even, a relationship might juz blossom from here..for all u noe.

Rather than juz keeping mum abt ur admiration n lose a chance to have a great r/s with tis guy. Or simply being frens wif himf for a start, wont b too much to ask, im sure.

All healthy r/s starts from a true, pure friendship Wink

Go, girl power, go! Cool

I'll giv u my support here!

CP25 SG

Hi huiz,

I think u can try going up to the guy, smile, be natural, and ask for some school work advice..keke.

He, if is a helpful guy, wld certainly giv u a helping hand for sure, and e rest is up to u Wink

If he's dao, then u can diss him away..haha

Hope it works, I tried it b4 for ur info. Laughing

starblue SG

i have his number lah.. haha.. the first tutorial he was the one who made us all write our numbers and say he will email us all each other's numbers... so i have already.. hehe.. and i tried smsing him twice. first time he never reply. the sec time it was about the exams lah... so never talk anything outside of the module loh.. haiz...

the gravy thing not good leh.. he will be in school and all.. like very de bad loh.. and plus we usually just go our separate ways after tutorial, never go canteen one leh...

CP25 SG

oh..for work, simply ask for some help wif work matters..works even better Wink

starblue SG

hmm... how to hint that i like his company.. anyway, my main concern is.. i cannot show that i am interested in him too much, cos we barely know each other you see.. he will find it wierd wun he??? i also want to build a friendship first. but i dunno how to, without seeming too "obvious" about it... sigh...

smudgey SG

just call him one day and chat. try a few times... you'll never gain anything unless you risk some...

starblue SG

kaoz.. call him out of the blue even wierder loh.. besides, i dun wan to do that lah.. the last time i did, i got myself into a lot of pain... Crying or Very sad

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