What I can suggest to you will make you more appealing to both
men and women
The last paragraph you wrote sounded almost like a plea to men to
accept you. This hard-selling tactics must stop. You sounded almost
desperate and have already created a negative impression even
before you meet him.
1)First and Foremost, think of yourself as a rare commodity
Once upon a time when paper money was not even created, people
practiced barter trading. Then one fine day, one smart @ss decides
that maybe it would be easier to find a commodity to represent
value. Instinctively, he chose gold. You see, it is a psychological
fact that people tend to place more value on things that are rare
and harder to find.
The first thing you must do is to convince yourself that you are a
good catch to men and you are a rare commodity.
Next you put your convictions into actions
2)Focus on your dreams and ambitions
Your dreams at this moment does not include d!cks, pussies or
boobs. All these can come later. A desirable person is someone who
has a passion in something in life. Find something that you believe
you can continue doing for life. Your romantic life is always a
reflection of your regular life. When a person has a passion in
his/her life, people naturally want to be a part of it.
3)Never ever feel the need to prove yourself to anyone
When you feel the need to prove yourself, you are pretty much
screwed before you can even talk about starting a relationship.
Women tend to fall into the common trap of being too self conscious
when they try to prove themselves.
You for instance bombard yourself with questions like I feel our
conversation went fine
why arent they interested in me? Why dont
they like me? I cant speak Chinese properly, that must be the
problem? When you feel the need to prove yourself, you become
desperate to impress.
Look at your post for instance, if you are seriously looking for a
man who will truly loves you, you believe he will be so concerned
about your extraordinary boobs. Why is there a need to prove
yourself?
So start doing some self-improvement, find out what you want to be
and what can be the passion in your life. Work on it and you will
begin to love yourself more and becomes more confident. A woman who
is confident, knows who she is and has a passion in her life is
appealing
you will naturally become a rare commodity that men will
sought after.
