Daphne,
You wonder why your lesb friend Andrea is attracting all the guys?
Simple
its because she dont bother to impress any guys
theres
no reason to because she is lesb anyways.
When she dont try to impress guys, she appeared more like a
challenge to them. If you want success with men, you should really
study how this girl interacts with the guys. Im guessing she is
probably very much at ease and friendly when she chat with them,
but she will be aloof and cold when the guys keeps hinting about
starting some relationship. So she ends up sending mixed signals to
men unintentionally.
The more mixed signals there are, the more men will fantasize about
the possibilities. Both men and women like challenges
fact.
I believe she probably looks better than you do
thats a factor as
well. You said guys are superficial and go for looks, thats true.
But that doesnt mean you will have no chance with men. About 80%
of the people on this planet are ordinary and average looking
going
by your theory, we would be extinct long ago. You must work in your
scale first
.if you look like a 7/10 right now, you should go for
guys who look like 7/10, then when you find more confidence, you
aim for those in the higher scale.
You cant really completely change how you look, but you can always
improve on it. When you wear better clothes, slim down or change
your hairstyle
remember you are doing it for yourself, not anyone
else. When you develop that mentality and attitude in life, the
guys will come.
As for the complex case of whether you like d!cks or pussies
better
nobody can help you decide. Be more mature and make up your
mind as soon as you can, then stick with it. Simple as that.
Good luck
