KucKuc,
I don't talk about my guy with quite many people, but that doesn't
mean I don't love him. Truth be told, I'm head over heels in love
with him! There're some who'll tell you to go for it.
But my personal view is, don't.
If you ask her, & she says yes, then what? Wouldn't that put
you in a predicament too? What if you're labelled as a
relationship-wrecker? And worse, how would you be able to look at
yourself in the mirror? Lastly, what if she gets stolen away by
someone else? When will you get together? How will you get
together? So many questions, so many doubts...
If you ask her, & she says No, then what? You're heartbroken,
but you may cling on to the hope that she only said No to you
because she didn't want to betray her bf's trust.
Either way, it's lose-lose.
FeowFeow
