parn SG Don't worry about it, he still loves you though...but he just can't keep staring into your starry eyes and says he loves you all the time. How long has it been since...5 years? Well...7 years itch probably refers to in another 2 more years, he'll be dying to try the bitch-next-door if there're any around. Guys always want other guys to look up to them and give them face as their friends. So...it is merely a case of ego-boosting. You guy probably does that to give his friends the impression that he's wearing the pants in this relationship and you aren't controlling him by his balls in this relationship. He just wanna show his friends that he's the man of the man and just wanna win faces like the other guys does. Some guys does that when out with their friends, but seriously speaking...you really got him by his balls in the relationship haven't you? He does loves and respects you a lot, hasn't he? Hmm...I don't see any potential threat this relationship, and you're probably just feeling insecure about this relationship. But you'll feel better and get over this once he marries you. It's has been a stalemate for 4 years almost 5 years already right? Remember, a whirlpool of love is not as exciting as a whirlpool when it has settled down into a stalemate. Bottomline...he still loves you a lot as far as I can see. So let him do his braggings to his friends and earn back his ego and he will be back to loving you again after he has recharged his ego and moods and depleted all his frustrations. Well...he's going to marry you. It's been 5 years together with him and he still didn't get sick of you and even want to spend at least another 50 years staring into your starry eyes occasionally(once in a while...LOL) and says he still loves you. I think if you can also agree that he's the kind who might do such a thing after 50 years....you should be assured that he truly deserves you. Hahahhaa.......so Good luck.
pinkygal76 SG Hi Parn Thanks for the reassurance!!!....Ya...my guy has been kinda of a egoistic maniac Will I guess it may really be a case of ego boosting session amgst these frenz... Maybe he just "sway" lor.... to have these things that he have been boosting outside to eventually come back to my ears! I never really fancy these groups of frenz that he has been hanging out with anyway..... BTW I heard the rumours from his drinking buddies !! These guys are the ones that fool around a lot behind their gf back as well...... have seen these frenz openly kissing and holding other gals when they are either attached or due to be married.... *sigh* ....knew that one of the guys even engage in one nights stands and stuff like that when he is due to be getting married soon! My guy is mellowing down these days and not hanging out with these group of people that often now!! Thank GOD!! Just went out with him on Sat and starting to notice the change in him! TO ALL THE GUYS OUT THERE YA!! MIND WAT YOU TELL YOUR FRENZ OUT THERE YA! you will not want to eventually loss yr love one just becoz of some damn ego-boosting shit ya! WHAT IS SAID may eventually come around back to the ears of yr love ones!
M©+square SG Loss of loved ones - misunderstood? - Heresay? - Distrust? - Inferior? It should be two way communication and constant sharing from the beginning? If every couple will tackle right into the root problem and pluck it out. This warning shouldn't be valid. Sadly, because couples do not/lost the will to work on foundation. When relationship is spiralling downwards. Always do self check and try to start from a point to climb upwards again. It's a cycle, except whether it's going down or going up. Cheers
shaunlaw SG Ego is nth but a harmful thing to have now. So if u are a MCP now or u know a MCP, do tell them to change. If not, its the end of the road for them.
ILPSY SG You shouldn't be looking into reassurance from someone else. We are all bystanders in your relationship. We dun know anything about you and your boyfriend. Thus, it is unwise to take our opinions as your opinion. Seriously, you should ask yourself what the whole relationship means to you. Hopefully, you can make a sound decision, without the hearsay and reassurance from all other sources besides you and your bf!
zacken99 SG hi, erm...i guess love itself is full of uncertainty......and this type of uncertainty get worst when u cum to serious issue like marriage... its sweet to hv ur lover to b so nice to u...but man very funny...sometimes we b sweet to our lover.. becos of this big word respponsibility...nt we wana do.. but we think we hv to do... erm...5 yrs is a rather long time...i believe there must b love to go thru it.. but is the love maintain??? 5yrs ..also mean alot of thing hv become a habitual behaviour rather than a sincere...love gesture..
luvjasmine SG it’s you decision, you decide. you’ve known him for 5yrs; you should know what kind of person he is. duh, he can’t possibly be marrying u if he don’t love you. unless he is a @##%%^$ good luck girl, trust your view and instinct.
sweetie6 SG pinky...if ur bf goes clubbing,did he bring u along? intro u to his friends? I'm sure ur relationship for 5 years can tell if both are looking towards a common goal...towards marriage!
