Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Usually when that happens to people I know, I will
study him/her in details, as part of my everyday study. Somehow,
you didn't choose or desire to be in that kinda of relationship,
but heaven seemed to make sport of you.
A slight shift of preception: it may not be YOU with the tendency
of falling for taken/semi-attached girls, rather, it seemed like
unlearned lesson repeating its cycle. You said that you encounter
situation where regrets sinks in, then your girl became unavailable
and pressure you into a third party status.
Have you truely learn the pain of thorns when plucking the roses? I
doubt so. You merely know
the pain, but the deterrence is not enough for you to
abstance.
Karmic relationship - created a carrot dangling infront of donkey
situation. You are lured forward.
Seriously, I do not have much issues about people chasing after
others who are currently attached. But what is accompanied by such
relationship is usually a price, without a pricetag. We never know
the extend of how much it will cost us until we decide to enter
into that zone and move towards that direction.
[b]Such is but self
discovery and knowledge, on what is the best route to steer in
Love. 
Cheers [/b]
quite chim lol ... n i dont quite catch wat u tryin to say ..
haha ... issit to put it simply .. u trying to say tat its all up
to me ??
rite now i m quite confused cos i found myself starting to be
attracted to her ... i mean .. its quite fast .. really ... jus
when i heard she is single again .. i felt something -.- ... so
much so to the extend tat when we went out the next day .. i really
treat her like my gf ... treat her stuffs, touch her hair , shower
affection .. i even took her to the arcade n play tat "fishing for
the plush toys" machine ... each try $1 tat one ... n i actually
spent $50++ jus to cheer her up.. n after tat i felt good n not
heart ache ...even though we didnt managed to fish something out
-.-
.. omg ... then m i starting to "hallucinating" .. like ... my mind
will start to float n think of ways on hw to woo her ... u koe wat
i mean ?? it is abit getting out of control ... jus barely a few
days 
