Why look at those 4 as competitiors?
Look at them as 4 childish boys competing with one another for a
little girl...
You will look at the girl and be what she hopes to be with. After
all, 4 or 400, the girl can only be with 1, the
one that she think would suit her, lest, of course, she's a
slut...
If she is 'greedy', then better go search elsewhere. 
Remember... There can only be one.
Don't be jittery all over just because you got 4000
compeititors... What?
Is it some horse racing game? Hehehehehe... Come on.