Strangle on the crossroad

TooFree SG

What will you advice when you are caught in my situation below.

I am at a crossroad. I know my strength and that is business. If I were to follow this path, I will excel truthly but at the expense of my moral obligation to help others since I was a kid.

Next is my interest. Ironically, my interest happen to be my weakness. I am always poor in my language since school days. If I were to pursue this choice, eventually my career will end up stagnant. But I will hold an honorable job and also fullfilling my helping desire.

The different between the two beside strength and interest(weakness), also encompasses money differences. As you guys know, money makes the world goes round despite how hard I dislike this fact.

Also, I will like to bring you to my earlier trend on http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=150748(Weasley family). If I opt to follow the 2nd option, I will indeed lose a lot of things that money can be bought. But if girl like "Mrs Weasley" do exist and is there for me, I wouldn't mind. All I am worried is that after following this option, I might end up with nothing even at the expense of starting a family.

Lastly, do note that I am no longer young. Choice one prove to be a wiser between the two as it carry on my path forward which I felt I am destinate for. Choice two, however will means back trekking but I don't mind this hardship.

Face with the two which will you choose? Neutral

Li Ka Shing SG

I think, if it's possible, u should combine the 2.

Meaning, u still work and take a career choice with the most prospects, and at the same time still help others.

Well, if u choose 1 and discard the other, I believe u will be in a dilemma, like now. Right now even the thought is making u in a dilemma. I think when u discard one of them, it's a sacrifice for u. If u can minimize the sacrifice, that is better for u. So combine them.

Elfred SG

It's not always easy to do what you wanna do... especially when you have too many things you wanna do.

Maybe try help yourself first... Mr. Green

I also wanna do business, I have find jobs now to accumulate capital and buy flat for housing my beautiful wife.

The problem is, when you can't even land a job, that's the current problem.

TooBusy SG

Life is hard Crying or Very sad

the Bear SG

what will you be happier doing?

seriously..

if you were to go with $$ and not be happy, and be miserable, even with a wife and all that, how would life be like? will your wife want to be with a miserable dude?

however, if you don't mind doing it, and ultimately find happiness but dread going to work, welcome to the majority of the world..

however, if the other, you're still making enough of a living to survive, but happy.. there are people out there living hand to mouth, and living very fulfilled lives with their spouses and children, and their children grow up good and upright people..

it all adds up...

make your own judgements, as to how much each mean to you, and how they will affect your life later..

good luck