maybe u need to stabilise urself and be more rational instead of
emotional. when u're emotional, what u do and say can get pretty
distorted and illogical.
so, keep it together and approach the topic when u are more stable,
otherwise u risk blowing it up due to rash actions or words.
also, perhaps everyone's different, but i feel there's no "need" to
"invest" in too much feelings for someone that is just a normal
friend. u may have known her for a while, or not, but that doesn't
matter. in a way, as long as she's not ur gf, dun pour everything
on. doesn't matter who the girl is. i guess i speak as an advice to
u for FUTURE reference. sometimes u can't help yourself from
falling, true, but u also can help yourself by not counting ur
chickens before their hatched. yes, most of us do that, and it
INCREASES EXPECTATIONS and hence the pain.
why expect reciprocation when it's a priviledge not an entitlement?
it's never an entitlement becos u can't EARN love like u earn
money. no matter how good u are to someone, they dun love u back
means they dun love u back.
cmon, it's expection, HOPE, that's giving u utter disappointment to
tears.
remember that next time.
