After so many pages, I think I owe all the wonderful people
who've helped keep my spirits up an update 
My guy's feeling better lately, & although there're still some
gloomy moments, he has lightened up. When his body language looks
receptive, I try to distract him with other matters, outings,
conversation topics, & of course, little surprises. On good
days, he's back to his old laidback, fun-loving self. On bad days,
they're Not as bad anymore 
So a big thank you to all who've been so supportive & who have
left such touching messages of care for both of us.
By the way, the other way we saw an ad for "Cai2 Jin1 Zhui1 Ji1",
i.e. Money Mind. In the ad, we saw them having a feature on an
American fastfood joint, Carl's Junior. The big baby got all
excited & said, "Oh Oh OH OH OHHHHHHHH!!! Can we go there,
babe, please please please? They serve the best burgers!"
How can I say No? 
So, can anyone tell me? I'm gonna figure out a way to bring him
there without him knowing 
FeowFeow