i do not set criteria for my guy. i don't go: my future bf must
be 1.8m, 70kg max, a bit tanned, soft short hair, broad chest, no
BO, charming eyes, passionate about biology, plays basketball well,
can play either the guitar or the piano............." and then go
out and find guys who fit into the criteria... get it? of cos the
basic nice-ness is important for me to even like him as a friend.
but i do not set boundaries like you.