Dear Ayukat,
There's such a thing as: RESPONSIBILITY.
To the posters who ask questions & solutions here, we have the
responsibility to HELP them. The best help, is NOT necessarily what
they wish to hear. But it could actually be the best thing for them
to do.
If I know that a poster is highly likely to get his heart broken
further by persevering & irritating the girl in the process,
why would I want to advise him to go ahead? I'm sure you've heard
of the phrase 
medicine that is bitter to the taste
is good medicine. This may Not be accurate in ALL situations, but
when the poster's situation doesn't look good, how can I go against
my conscience & tell him, "Yah yah, go ahead, go ahead", whilst
knowing deep inside what a woman thinks?
By the way, what we Agony Aunt helpers/posters here post, I
believe, is NOT dictated by other posters. Nobody owns the right to
another person's speech, so long as sensitive topics or vulgarities
have Not been spewed forth. We don't get personal either, & the
advices given are mostly from experience. Seriously, there's
Nothing wrong with that.
FeowFeow
