Ayukat,
Look at it this way. when ppl come and post their problems here, we
only get to see their side of the story...
how they tell it can tell us alot on how bad the situation they
think they're in...
However, in most cases when you are in the problem, you can't see
clearly what the obvious, but tough solution is...
when their situation are so bad to the extend where their partners
are fooling around in the open, do you say to them..." hang on,
don't forget to let himher slap your other cheek too!!!" of course
not!!! you'll tell them to dump the b*st*rd!!!
if you look through the past posts i distinctively remember one
post in particular where a gal was complaining that her bf is
keeping stuff given to him by his ex and was upset by that...
If I'm not wrong most of the advices were to look at the brighter
picture and not harp on the ex factor...
so you see not all the advices are to break up...
however I do notice that quite a few of your post are negative and
tend to criticise ppl, either ppl's problems or like now ppl's
advice.
my advice to you is, if you don't like what you are reading here.
don't read it.
