Originally posted by drx:
I believe in pure friendship, many of my ladies friends are married
or had bfs and their husband or bfs trust me when I go out with the
ladies alone.
I got some ladies whom I can chat so much with until others believe
that we were together but both of us know we were just
friends.
I lost many chances to know girls cos I chat too much with my lady
friends, the girls felt that I care too much for friend instead of
her and thought I like my lady friend. I believe in friends more
than relationship so that i did not borther too much.
Excuse me, are you a hairdresser? 
Don't get me wrong, but it simply doesn't sound what most practical
men would do. Why would you spend so much time on lady friends who
are no longer available? And why would these lady friends choose to
go out with you alone instead of with their partners? Do you like
shopping and giving fashion and beauty tips to these lady friends
of yours?
I know of a guy who felt perfectly secure with his wife going out
with another man alone, too. But the other man was something like a
"sister" to his wife, so this guy I know had no qualms about
letting them go out on shopping sprees and high teas. Is your case
something like that, too?
