It's ok
to be stubborn, afterall, we all have our own thinking behind the
agony.
But if you want some practical advice that will probably do you
some good, or like what Devil had mention - the skill of fishing,
then do not come here post and expect people to reply the kind of
answer you want to see for badly. Seriously, in the first place, I
don't even want to bother, till I see him lamenting about nobody
'helping' him here. Maybe nobody want to say something that is
pleasing to his ears, because in the first place, by neutral stand,
there isn't any.
If you want to look for people to give you the ANSWER that you want
to SEE, Create a few clones and reply to yourself the things you
want to see. I always maintain this: advice are usually things
people don't want to hear, for if it happens to be
something you expected - it is called reaffirmative. Then again, he
got nothing to reaffirm. Reaffirm what? To see if he should ignore
her for this current week? 
P.S: Pai seh ar, I know I am damn naggy. I am like that real life
when it comes to BGR sh!t even to good friends - but I merely
speak, and won't make decision on their behalf because it's their
life afterall. A vampire doesn't see responsibility in all these;
just fighting to supress the beast within and maintain the humanity
in me. 
***
(Please
ignore):
Angel takes grace and credits; a
vampire takes blame and condemnation.
Angel and vampire... Good and Evil don't mix. - CloUdiSm `00,
History of Yunhaier.
Cheers
