forbidden love

demon_hunter87 SG

she’s a christian while i’m a free thnker. she said that we cannot go on with this relationship with me coz her leader dun allow. i tried becomin a christian for her, but i cant. the ppl there r jus too obsessed with their religion. she’s the first gal that can click so well with me.she got me off games addictions which i truely appreciate. i dun wan this to end. but there’s nth i can do.we r from 2 diff world. i’m numb to the past few weeks of crying before goin to sleep and waking up with tears.hahaha…i will recover…but with a scar…

Mao x 2 SG

Firstly, I don't understand that how on earth does her leader have the right to forbid her from having a relationship with a non-christian?

M©+square SG

I think you should post it in Eternal Hope.

http://www.sgforums.com/?action=forum_display&forum_id=1381

There will be too much religous discussion on this.
Do you need me to help you post it?

MOD NOTE: Low tolerance for Religous discussion.
Please stick to helping thread starter objectively.

M©+square SG

Honestly, what is your age?
And which church is she from - (Private message me)
I see if i could help in one way or another.

Cheers

kopiosatu SG

i feel the leader should bother about his/her own life first.

FORGET-ME-NOT SG

God won't forbid anyone from falling in love. Try to understand God and ignore others. Don't let their obsession affect your view about Christian. I am not a Christian, I am a buddhist but I beleive every religion is good.

drx SG

is the leader in love with her?

Mao x 2 SG

Rolling Eyes hmmmm.... possible..

Boo777 SG

Best not to discuss anything bout religion here like wat the moderaters said. They can get a little extreme when the wrong things r said.

BrUtUs SG

tink he meant that religion leader interested in her so forbid her to be with him...

stellazio SG

You can be a christian,just don't go to her church lohz..Find a church with peeps that u're comfortable with and join their group..Maybe u can go with ur christian friends,i'm sure she ain't that particular about which church you go too just as long as you're a christian..Somehow maybe for that love,you should sacrifice a little,though she kinda got brainwashed abit,but some people has got weirder believes.. Laughing

drx SG

Did she say she like you?

SMAPLionHeart SG

If you are from CHC, please pm me.

im serious

Yunhaier SG

'God forbid'?

Or human doings?

P.S: Possible affliction in 9th house/Jupiter OR in sign of Sagittarius.

Cheers

Wind SG

I'm in a same situation? In the longer run that is, if we were to tie things down one day.

Note - It ISN'T a RULE nor LAW that only Christians/Catholics can be together with one of their kind.

Myself too, always thought that way till a friend enlightenend me. It's always the senseless human's own interpretation that complicate things further.

I'm sort of under some pressure too? I'm a Buddhist, and I'm easygoing. I don't mind going to Church, and in fact I went with her a couple of times. Nothing wrong? Just that on a few occasions, I really needed to suppress my laughters. I see Buddhism as a teaching, not a religion. I'm open-minded enough.

But if there were hints (I sense it coming) that her family/relatives, mostly her relatives want me to convert, a war is coming.

It's a matter of choice and freewill mate. Wink

rogue13 SG

I understand how u feel. Had a gf and broke up due to religion. Sux big time cuz it's ironic that religion, which provides Man with emotional support, is the very reason that breaks up couples.

Sometimes u wonder if the religion is stupid or the followers are stupid... Move on pal.. Juz assess wisely next time b4 commiting into one bah...

Boo777 SG

I think tat itz possible. Their pastors can get married one. But if it is real, tat is really underhand.

ChingAlvin SG

This problem again. group leaders forbids their members into love and stuffs and forbids from having friends outside the church circle. I posted in the past about this b4 not seems like more and more churches are becoming like this.

ChingAlvin SG

wrong post