love or bread?

Steph84 SG

Guy 1: u love him more, but he is lazy n aimless... dun feel secure with him at all.... however feel comfortable with him..

Guy 2: have got the bread and is hardworking and more mature..... u like him...

who'd u choose??

StarPuppy SG

2! Very Happy

Steph84 SG

pls be serious. me very dilemma now... pls.. Crying or Very sad

margarita SG

guy 1 like u? can change him?

DriftingGuy SG

Why not 2 ?

ha8n SG

2 hmm

nOrmalbOi SG

again ah? whats wrong this time?

u might wanna watch the movie "swet home alabama"

might give u a hint of an answer..

Steph84 SG

both guys like me....

if guy 1 not lazy n aimless, i will def choose him..

but its been 2 yrs..... think laziness is in his blood Rolling Eyes

tats y now i afraid if i continue to be with guy 1, i will regret.. on the other hand, i still love him...

margarita SG

i choose guy 1 ..

charlene_ SG

follow your heart no matter what..
don't let other issues affect you..
most importantly is to follow your heart
the only reason that it could be to be in a relationship is love..

the.raven SG

too!!!

Steph84 SG

its always there the prob

sibei sian

Steph84 SG

pls gif the logic behind ur choice… ty

M©+square SG

Laughing

It's rather obvious. When you ask people if they want Bread or Love.
In your eyes, you can see and it is as close as the basic truth you can get.
Your vision is clear, the mind speaks and process well, your heart tells you one is Love and one is Bread.
Your judgement and analytical skills are ok, you're able to seperate between Love and Bread.
The answer is obvious.

Love = Feelings, intangibles.
Bread = Money, power and materials.

And you actually have it.

It's not a matter of following your heart, i reckon you see which is a better bet to place on. Your security is at stake, hence asking for the 'right' decision. Either side has it's shortfall and it's all up to you to make it right.
It all depends on your preference and needs. No one is going to blame you for your choice.

Cheers

Mao x 2 SG

Why not 1?
Mr. Green

Steph84 SG

great answer.... ty Smile

Steph84 SG

MC square.. u are really correct.. i tot abt it and yea, i noe the difference... i know what will happen with regards to each guy i choose...

however, i jus cant decide on wad am i ready to give up and what am i ready to live with... i jus cant make up my mind...

i'm afraid if i choose guy 2, i will still miss guy 1 and that i am unable to love guy 2 as much as i love guy 1....

however, with guy 1, im sick of the insecurities about his future, having to pay this pay that for him... worry abt his studies (when i haf to worry abt myself too). wads worse is thru out this 2 yrs, i've been constantly tokking abt this prob to him.. but i see no progress in the way he handles his life and about his plans for the future.. or abt us.....

Guy 2 is already working.. i think im attracted to him cos he is nice to me, hardworking and mature... an organised person...

maybe cos guy 2 doesnt have any of the problems that guy 1 has... tats y he seems so attractive.....

there u are.... all my dilemmas........................ feast... Confused

nightyoung SG

Originally posted by Steph84:
MC square.. u are really correct.. i tot abt it and yea, i noe the difference... i know what will happen with regards to each guy i choose...

however, i jus cant decide on wad am i ready to give up and what am i ready to live with... i jus cant make up my mind...

i'm afraid if i choose guy 2, i will still miss guy 1 and that i am unable to love guy 2 as much as i love guy 1....

however, with guy 1, im sick of the insecurities about his future, having to pay this pay that for him... worry abt his studies (when i haf to worry abt myself too). wads worse is thru out this 2 yrs, i've been constantly tokking abt this prob to him.. but i see no progress in the way he handles his life and about his plans for the future.. or abt us.....

[b]Guy 2 is already working.. i think im attracted to him cos he is nice to me, hardworking and mature... an organised person...
maybe cos guy 2 doesnt have any of the problems that guy 1 has... tats y he seems so attractive.....

there u are.... all my dilemmas........................ feast... Confused [/b]

Hi.. i think you have answered yourself the question by questioning yourself...
give up guy 1
go for guy 2
if guy 1 really loves u.. he will change ..
guy 2 will be the best person..

Steph84 SG

nah i know guy 1 wun change.... even now i've told him abt this prob very seriously n we're at cooling period, he has not told me once that he will change... haiz..

but i noe i love guy 1 more. tats y i dilemma. think i jus dun haf the courage to gif him up.

Blueskyz SG

Steph,

U shld know better urself.. cos ultimately u r the one who is going to walk the future with the guy tat u choose..

All of us here could only give u advises..

Best wishes Smile