erm..are you a girl???
you probably aren't, cos you dun seem to get the signs
right...
when a girl is willing to go out one on one with you, it DOESN"T
necessarily mean anything. it's so often just a friendly
gesture...
chatting with you on phone or msn, same thing...
initiating chats.... this must depend on the girl.. but for me, cos
my friends seldom initiate chats with me, soi usually do the
initiating, and there are no other meanings attached to it. they
know it full well...
so yah.. i guess you should try and understand girls more...