Is it ok for guys to treat frens more impt den their gf?

Trouble^ga| SG

i feel dat my bf is treating his guy frens more impt den me??I dunno y when i see him treat his frens more impt..i will like feel unhappy abt it??Is this call jealous or??Sometimes i realli feel sad when he treat his frens more impt den me..T.T..we often quarrel because of this problem...How??What shld i do??? Sad

CoolMyth SG

Peng You Ru Shou Ju

Nu Ren Ru Yi Fu!

Cool

To answer the topic, you might want to have a talk with your guy and thrash everything out. Cool

Roxy_Gurl SG

Yes. This is a form of jealousy. haha.. How long have u all been together? Have u seen guys who treats his game more impt then their gf? Maybe if you tell him about your worries sincerely, he will take note of it. It really depends. But i believe u are something inside him. All guys would like their gf, but some are not good in showing it..

Mao x 2 SG

Yes.. but in a nice way..
Quarrel will only make things worse and you might ended up saying hurtful words. Talk to him nicely.. And see if he could give you some assurance.

Trouble^ga| SG

Hmmx…my bf also likes to play games…so wad shld i do??Open one eye close one eye??

Mao x 2 SG

You can't stop your bf from playing games.
You need to give him some space to do the things that he like.
If possible, join in the fun so that you won't feel left out.

charlize SG

Fuck, some guys treat the TV remote control better than their girlfriends.

Really. Laughing

Trouble^ga| SG

WAd makes me realli angry is when i let him play games..he will ignore me totally when he is playing his games…i just dun like him always play games instead go out to get a part time job..Haizzz…

Mao x 2 SG

Simple.. tell me what do you want from him?

M©+square SG

Cool

Roxy_Gurl SG

Each guys have their own interest. If it’s playing games, join him the game! Play silly games with him, it may even bring ur relationship closer. Believe me. U want him to get a part time job? Will u complain again if he’s working too much and neglected u?

Trouble^ga| SG

of coz i won’t complain if he is willing to go out to find a part time job..hmmx…he prefers to play with his frens…

Mao x 2 SG

Rolling Eyes

nOrmalbOi SG

First off... heres wishing u a belated birthday..

ok

how old is ur bf? if he is also in his late teens.. that prolly explains why he still likes to "play".. as in not caring about the future that much.. and erm.. in a r/s.. its about giving and taking... and it seems to me ur unhappy that he is not doing something that u would like him to do... but leos like to be in control dun they? Wink

btw.. what games does he play? if possible join in lor... or not ask him to play maple story with u lor.. hehe

cheer up ba..

smudgey SG

Been there done that!!!

if your bf likes to play games too much... some guys just need to grow out of it... my case we were mentally of different levels.... now after we broke up he's much better i think

sometimes a guy needs time to outgrow such "hobbies"... but if u really can't wait then go....

I told my ex. he maybe the right guy for me... but we met too soon... and by the time he "grew up" mentally he'll be Mr right but Mr Right for someone else.

hmm... in physical pain now (hurted my back)... am i making any sense?

charlize SG

Get this in your head: Guys - they never mature, they just grow older.

Whether they are 15, 30 or 55, they will still be playing with their online games and such.

Better they waste their time at home blowing up ugly green monsters than screwing your best friend's sister behind your back. Laughing

nOrmalbOi SG

sad but true

Laughing

dcx SG

I dun like to play games with my gf.....she always win me....then i'm always the one buey song...so, i dun like to play games....if wanna play games, once in a while go Arcade n play, it brings both closer too.... Mr. Green

browniebaobao SG

I'm the type who will balance bf and frens wan..

got bf also muz spare some time for frens.. bcos I believe frens can be there for u for a long long time..whereas if I break break up with bf..most of the times.. we dun even talk..no to mention, remain as frens.

shinta SG

u sound like my sis Laughing

she's complainin abt the same thing too..