bluepiggy SG what happens your partner is truthful to u about his past?? can u take it if it was something immoral?? eg : taking drugs, prison, sleeping with another guy while he has a wife/gf, steal things?? how would u take it?
mistyblue SG I'm lying if I say it does not... However, it does not imply that is the kind of behaviour that he/she will engage in future But, if the behaviour is a pattern... this kind is beyond saving... best get out before its too late.
bluepiggy SG selling drugs ok la... drung addict that quitted.. wat about the sleeping with other ppl's wife?
Mao x 2 SG It's all in the past. At least, he's honest enough to tell you the truth. That depends on how much you really love or trust him. Everyone make mistakes.
charlize SG Honesty is over rated. You think sado masochistics coined the term "The truth hurts"? I don't think so.
CoolMyth SG I prefer not knowing rather than having to decide what to do after I know. It's better if both treat each other on a clean slate when they start.
Tuatau SG "Ignorance is bliss." The past is behind us and that is where it rightfully belongs. Why invite trouble for ourselves over something we could never change? Why not just concentrate on being happy and content with the present?
Blueskyz SG I will want him to be honest with me rather than me finding out eventually.. I feel tat it really hurts if someone I care is not honest with me.. it will mean tat i mean nothing to him at all.. cos he's not willing to share everything..
axle-ken SG yea... being honest to each another in a relationship is the most important concept to have. trust build up on honesty freedom build up on trust and the list goes...
axle-ken SG Yes. for me. but usually this kinda stuff subjects to different person. but when he/she is being honest to you, it means tat you had some position in his heart am i right???
